When I severed ties with you and Stephanie over five years ago and said not to communicate with me anymore, I didn’t elaborate on my reasoning. And I think you deserve to know what it was (and still is).

You are not a reasonable or even a rational human being. And you actually scare me. You go from 0 to 100 at the drop of a hat, and you are incapable of showing empathy or grace to others if it doesnt suit your agenda. You are not open to other people’s feelings if they make you feel any ounce of discomfort. You are incapable of taking responsibility for your words and actions and how they negatively impact others. I have repeatedly asked you not to contact me. Mom and dad have told you not to contact me. That is an UNCONDITIONAL boundary I have set. Meaning, I dont care what your intentions are (or what you think they are), you are NOT to communicate with me ever. I dont trust you, I dont like you. I dont find you to be sincere in your actions or words unless they are of anger and vitriol and hate. And I have every right and reason to feel those things towards you based on my own experiences. I dont find you to be emotionally stable. And you make a real ass of yourself when you act out like a child kicking and screaming on the floor because you cant get your way.

I know this email sounds harsh but it’s also true and you need to be told these things even if others are too afraid to. I’ve given you every opportunity to stand down and have delivered clear messages to leave me alone. And you have ignored them only to prove to me WHY I have set those boundaries in the first place.

Once again, do not contact me ever.